Opening Gambit - Jun 23
- Operator
- Jun 6, 2023
- 27 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
Opening Gambit
An opening gambit is an opening where a player sacrifices material, usually a pawn, to gain a positional or tactical advantage. This sacrifice aims to create imbalances, open lines for attack, or secure control of the center of the board.
Metronome Guide
The Metronome is a chess game
played between myself and Certain,
and her daughter at the end.
The match remains open since the moves are still in place.
You will know the beginning by knowing the end.
My words will shown.
Certain and her daughter will be time stamps to protect their privacy.
But their words that can be easily forwarded on to the third parties
involved with assisting them with their statements made
on June 6 oand June 28th, around that date.
The entire communication from after and a little prior to June 6 are catalogued.
My communication changed intentionally, since words said needed to be documented.
That patterns of behavior reflected with spotted and unspotted titles.
Certain also signed a document of a Title regarding my mental state
which only has 1 titile I wrote, with no content.
1 word to the previously titled White Sands.
The story wasn't completed until recently this year.
Metronome is used for reference of samples and examples of Truth.
Along with a Shield of my words and their context of timestamped correspondence.
I have only read their emails once since it brought much sadness to see to players not see how empty their words means when viewd in reverse order from November 12, 2024.
I pity them.
If asked by third parties, who did I go to for help after the 12 days spent which they agreed was the best for me, my answer is, the person you believed and enforced help on me.
Enjoy the Menronome, since it was a lot of boring data management
Which so happens to be my expertise.
Good Luck and Good Speed.
Red Opening Gambit
Metronome of Defense
Pattern
Time and effort reveal the Truth
SPOTTED - Beginning
First time I tried to break up with Certain
Context: Statement about first time I tried to break up with Certain
Pattern: Influenced with threat
Words: Ceratin said, "If you think you can leave me, you don't know what I can do."
Actions: Remained with her and took her for her word. Married her knowing
Timeline: First Time I tried to berak up with Certain "If you think you can leave me, you don't know what I can do," she said
Beginning
After February 13, 2023 - May 29, 2023
SPOTTED - Abnormal Certain
Context: Statement about wife's abnormal certainty of my mental health prior to June 4, 2023
Pattern: Attempts to influence and documented my mental state by wife.
Words: Therapis said, "It seems like you are transferring stress on your husband.
Actions: 2 therapy sessions which can be corroborated by licensed therapist
Timeline: Between Feb 13, 23 when I separated to May 29, 23 - Licensed therapist's opinion of wife after 2 attempts on imposing a certainty of my mental state, "It seems likes you are transferring your anxiety on your husband."
*2 attempts of a certain diagnosis from an abnormally stressed wife
Tue, May 30, 2023
Unspotted - State of Marriage
Context: Provides state of marriage and mental state
Pattern: Marriage was detiorating due to lack of interest from Certain. Issue with older daughter's hostility
Words: Trying my Best.
Actions: Changed communication to email to document of state of marriage, due to abnormalities
Timeline:Tue, May 30, 2023 at 4:16 PM - Provide state of the marriage and issue with step daughter's hostility
1- I will do my Best -7 days from June 6
Wed, May 31, 2023
Unspotted -No stress
Context: Mental state stress free.
Pattern: Stress free. Normal. Wife ignores's previous remark about oldest daughrer's esclation which caused me to move out.
Words: Trying my Best. Normal conversation
Actions: Normal behavior
Timeline: Wed, May 31, 2023 at 3:40 PM - Stress free and normal
2- my day has been going well -6 days from June 6
Spotted as unspotted
Context: Reply is normal
Pattern: Unconcern for mental state of husband. No mntion of oldest daughter in reply
Words: Humor and ask to come home from work
Actions: Normal behavior.
Timeline: Wed, May 31, 2023 at 5:00 PM - Unconcern of both husband's mental state or older'st daughters esclations
Roll of the Dice
Break in Pattern reveal something important
Fri, June 2, 2023
Payment To Wife for 1700 Dollars
Unknown Spotted
Context: Wife ask of deposit to money to her account.
Pattern: Break in Pattern.
Words: Author's notes below. Just unusual
Actions: Followed through and transferred funds.
Timeline: Fri, June 2, 2023 - Wife asked for a 1700 deposit into her account from funds she has access to. It was her money. not sure but a break in pattern. Transactions with Cash app for the month of June which was also a break in pattern.
*Author's Notes on I don't know
Sat, June 3, 2023
Spotted as unspotted
Context: Touching base with husband
Pattern: Normal and shows unconcern for mental state
Words: Hopes that I am having a good day
Actions: Unconcern of mental state
Timeline: Sat, June 3, 2023 at 4:53 PM - Touching base, unconcern of mental state of husband
Sun, June 4, 2023
BIG SPOTTED - Diagnosis
Context: A cut and paste of her diagnosis of my mental state
Pattern: A diagnosis from nowhere. Escalation and break in pattern. 3rd attempt.
Words: Reference to leaving the aparment without any mention of oldest daughter's escalating hostility towards me.
Actions: No follow up with this diagnosis in later communication for the etnire 1 year of corerspondence.
Timeline: Sun June 4, 2023 at 8:11 AM - Escaltion. Cut and paste diagnosis of a diagnosis similar to Feb 13, 23 to May 29, 23
Big Unspotted - Transparency
Context: Detail of the abuse going on in the house and reason why I was not staying home.
Pattern: Provide details with no responsed from wife.
Words: Words explains what the environment that was unsafe.
Actions: Trying my Best to work with Certain and say I will not live there if abuse continued.
Timeline:Wed, Jun 4, 2023 at 2:11 PM - Reply stating phaysical atack of oldest's daughter towards me, with no response and avoidence of this topic for the enitre 12 months of correspondnce, not even a denial.
Wed, Jun 6, 2023
Biggest Spotted - Coordination
Context: Statement regarding the day I left my wife
Pattern: Escalation from wife, with alibi of going to Sevice, her 3rd time in 5 years.
Words: Documented this event, along with prior unusal occurances . 4th Attempt.
Actions: Avoided her, not trustworthy or sincere.
Timeline: Wed, June 6, 2023 - Wife signs document of Title that supports her diagnosis attempted 3 times prior, with 2 days without response regarding escalating hostility of household.
Final Separation - 0 day
Wed, Jun 7, 2023
Unspotted Debt was twice thought
Context:Shows state of mind being stressed. No longer feel safe around wife. Incorrect amount debt, by half
Pattern: Documenting stress, along with proof I was not aware the size of debt
Words: Making mistakes with the amount owed along with mistakes on what happened. Still forgive
Actions: Debt was 125k and filed for bankruptcy. Certain avoids topic.
Timeline: Wed, Jun 7, 2023 at 6:43 AM - Proof I did not know how much debt, guessed 60k was 125k
*4 - I still forgive you 1 day after June 6
Spotted unconcerned
Context: Replies with vague denials and avoids detail of why I left
Pattern: Never anything specific about June 6th.
Words: Says she is worred with brief. 2 sentences.
Actions: Unconcern after signing document
Date: Wed, Jun 7, 2023 at 7:29 AM
Spotted focus on 282k Life Insurance Policy
Context: Says this is stress but mentions insurance policy.
Pattern: Vague concern of stress without specifics. Focuses on Insurance policy
Words: Avoidance of specific detail an unconcern of mentioning she signed a document.
Actions: Focus on the insurance policy and repeats later when I see her in June 28th.
Timeline:Wed, Jun 7, 2023 at 10:44 AM - Unpromted focus on Life Insurance policy of 282k.
Fri, Jun 9, 2023
Unspotted Stressed
Context: Send her a link of Student loan I mistaken for payment. Shwo signs of stress
Pattern: Try my best but do not want to engage with physical space.
Words: I forgive her
Actions: Trying my best to manage stress..
Date: Fri, Jun 9, 2023 at 9:38 AM - State I think she is dangerous to be in her space
5 - I forgive you. But I think it is a little too dangerous to see you 3 days
Spotted states I have no mental issues
Context: Mentions that I need help managing stress and there is nothing wrong with me. Adds the tragedy of her sister passing.
Pattern: Asks for sympathy without stating anything specific regarding June 4, Jun 6, or the 2 sessions with therapist which diagnosised my wife as transferrring stress onto her husband.
Words: Admits to no mental issue outside of stress and anxiety without saying she signed a document on June 6th.
Actions: Asks for sympathy
Timeline: Fri, June 9, 2023 at 11:34 AM - Confirmes I have no mental issues besides stress and anxiety.
Balance
To keep your balance,
you must keep moving.
Sat, Jun 10, 2023
Unspotted and now safe away from Spotted
Context:Stress is being managed.
Pattern: Trying my best and communicate to try to fix
Words: Trying my best. Last time stress is never managed
Actions: Health insurance was not possible due to financial hardships and unable not return to work.
Date: Sat, Jun 10, 2023 at 5:18 PM
*6 - Please allow me to correct some of my mistakes 4 days
Context: Understands why I missed her Sister's funeral. Unconcern for mental state
Pattern: Concern for mental state is no longer issue.
Words: Shows unconcern for mental state from this point forward except June 28 dates and 5 emails.
Actions: I saw my wife on June 28th or so was when sudden concern occured
Date: Sat, June 10, 2023 at 7:51 PM
Sun, Jun 11, 2023
Unspotted finally unstressed
Context:Shows improvement of getting a handle
Pattern: Trying my best
Words: No longer show signs of mental stress
Actions: Try my best to be a good husband to Certain without any help in return
Date: Sun, Jun 11, 2023 at 5:38 AM
7 - I was going through some obvious mental anguish 5 days
Spotted wants phone call, undocumented verbal
Context: Replies with ask to call or message her if I need help.
Pattern: Unconcern and acts like things are normal
Words: Shows unconcern for mental state
Actions: Wants verbal communication
Date: Sun, June 11, 2023 8:53 AM - asks for a phone call
Unspotted, login to credit card now in my name,
first time and see
um...debt was twice amount, 125k
Context: Trying to solve issues. Try to de-escalate
Pattern: No longer stressed and focused
Words: Practical
Actions: Transparency
Timeline: Sun, June 11, 2023 11:14 AM - Credit Card logins changed to my Name. Debt is double what I thought
*8 - I am practical. Very practical 5 days
Unspotted, transparent
Context: Intention is not to embarass her family
Pattern: Being trasnparent
Words: Transparency
Actions: Transparent
Date: Sun, Jun 11, 2023 at 11:24 AM
*9 - I am attempting to make things stable for you and your family. I will need Time, though 5 days
Spotted focus on phone
Context:Intiates details concern regarding sending a backup phone
Pattern: Break in pattern with iniatiing detailed help.
Words: Shows concern for phone
Actions: Offers to mail phone
Timeline: Sun, Jun 11, 2023 at 11:59 AM - Initates help with sending old phone with old phone number
Spotted unfocus on phone...cause strange
Context: Changes mind and says to call or message if I need anything
Pattern: Break in pattern of seeing odd to focus on sending a backup phone. Considering she rarely helps. Strange pattern
Words: Changes mind about sending phone
Actions: Changes mind about sending phone
Timeline: Sun, Jun 11, 2023 at 2:53 PM - changes mind about mailing old phone with old phone number
Context: Update of grandson.
Pattern: Shows unconcern to family members and normalize
Words: Update on grandson
Actions: Witnessed on June 6 of unconern towards grandson. I spoke up to make sure it was not mormalized.
Date: Sunday, Jun 11, 2023 4:34 PM
Mon, Jun 12, 2023
Context: Advise wife to not act rash. Debt exceeded more than thought of 60k . 125k debt was total.
Pattern: React to the Trust that broken in regards to finances
Words: Try to problem solve. Filing for bankruptcy
Actions: Filed and completed bankruptcy on Dec 28 2023, and started 6 month payment on that day to wife
Date: Mon, Jun 12, 2023 at 5:17 AM
*10 - Can you also try to change and not make any rash decisions 6 days
Spotted promise of taxes will be paid of her portion..not gonna was final promise
Context:Agrees with idea of managing her own finances and states she will help pay for her portion of taxes
Pattern: Wife agrees to pay her portion of taxes and breaks when asked again
Words: Promises help without aknowledging she used the cards and loans.
Actions: Avoids topic of bankruptcy and refuses to help with any financial help promised on this date
Timeline: Mon, Jun 12, 2023 at 10:11 AM - Wife agrees to pay her side of joint taxes filed.
Mon, Jun 15, 2023
Spotted details of driving my car, and car was washed before return
Context: Provides details about returnning the car
Pattern: Break in pattern, specifics, but none regarding the June 6th date
Words: Admits to driving car back to my house. Washed...whcih she admits on June 28th
Actions: Blame amd sympathy ask
Timeline: Thu, June 15, 2023 at 10:40 AM - Provides first specifid detail of June 6 date regarding car returned, with a later aknowledgment she washed before return, on credit card in my name
